The Art Of Being Alone.

Best Lines From Renuka Gavarani’s — The Art Of Being Alone.

1. Being alone and being lonely are two different things.
2. There are some days when you miss yourself more than you have ever missed anyone else.
3. We ignore what we are feeling because who has time for that ?
4. Loneliness is not when you don’t have people around. Loneliness occurs when you cannot find yourself inside you .
5. People are seasonal in everyone’s life, they come and go for good or bad. You will not expect people to stay forever.
6. Why do you hate the idea of being with yourself so much that the time you spend with yourself is now considered as loneliness and there should be some instant hacks and techniques to deal with it ?
7. The people who are setting boundaries and working on the goals/ dreams are the ones who don’t have a large group of friends .They are the ones were alone not because they are miserable and pathetic, but because they are choosing to leave the noise behind. And the people who are always ready for party or another get — together, or just seem to waste time scrolling through social media are the ones who have zero goals with no zero connection and a lot of time to pass judgement on who is doing what.
8. It’s our life , but we live as per the rules of society. In fact, so many people don’t act on their goals because they are worried about what people would think of them.
9. David Foster wallace says, you will stop worrying what others think about you when you realise how seldom they do.
10. Being alone is a part of life, it’s a part of adulting
    Then there will be times when people will get bored of you and they will find another toy to play with.
11. In a world were being alone is considered a curse.
    Being alone doesn’t mean your lonely . Being alone means you are with yourself .
12. Well , your imagination shapes your reality, and here you are, sitting there, thinking how you broke you can be and then how a perfect angel- like person will come to save you . The problem with this is that you choose to believe that you are not enough to change your life all by yourself. You rely on someone who doesn’t exist.
13. The more thought you give to what people think of you, the less attention you give to what you want, what you like, what you think, how you would like to enjoy life and more importantly what makes you you.
14. When you are alone ,you are dealing with just one mind – yours .Some treat it as a punishment some treated as a luxury.
15. Learning about yourself is a lifelong process, you change everyday a little you evolve with every song, every book, every article, every video and every thought you came across.
16. If you compromise with your principles once, it will become your habit to cheat your principals and do what’s cool.
17. To be alone is the secret of invention, be alone that is when ideas are born, that is by many of the earthly miracles have had their Genesis in humble surroundings.
18. All the great writers, artists and inventors choose to spend time with no destruction so that they can connect with something deep within themselves and create a true Masterpiece.
19. Your real guidance is you. Your heart knows what needs to be done and your mind is capable enough to figure out how.
20. Think before you let any advice or thought sit in your mind.
21. The time you spend with yourself will help you filter out the garbage, curate your own opinions, analyze your thoughts and study your beliefs.
22. Being perfectly ideal is an art. In a world where you have thousands of options at your fingertips to enjoy, its an art to know how to feel completely satisfied with doing nothing.
23. People whom you love today will leave you are you might have to leave them or they might change.
24. You are who you are, whether you like it or not, so why not like it ?
25. We think if you don’t have what everyone has then we are missing out.
26. You should take some time everyday to be alone so that you can think independently without the influence of anyone.
27. When you don’t know what you want, then you want to have everything glittery and Shiny.
28. Build your definition of everything.
29. You cannot build your dream life until you figure out what you don’t like about your life right now. Do you want to change your life? Every one does. But the question is why ?
30. To be able to create your dream life one day, you will have to act like your dream version everyday.
31. You cannot change everything and at once, if you try to you will just burn yourself .
32. We don’t feel exhausted because we try too hard, we feel exhausted because we don’t do too little of what truly makes us happy.
33. Make your alone time addictive by learning something and doing things that you like.
34. Books are not boring books and magical.
35. Educate yourself ,train yourself and most of all have fun with yourself.