Do We Really Care ??
Do We Really Care ??
Do We Really Care ??
Recently while I am studying the Book. “The Art of being alone” by Renuka Gavrani. I came across This line.
“ we ignore what we are feeling because who has time for that ”
It really made me think for moment, then I ask myself am I really caring about my feelings my , am I giving it some time to reflect, to analyse my own feeling and honestly the answer is NO .
The reason for this maybe varies from person to person, but I am pretty sure we all come with the simple excuse of being busy or not having an time. But not having enough time doesn’t sound strange , see we don’t have time to care about our own feelings, we are so busy that we cant think about ourselves , but hold on a second what if I say that we have time to really care about other’s feelings, how they are feeling about us . I dont wanna confuse you . Let me explain.
We care a lot about everyone else , We try to please, we try to do anything to have them in our life , we try to get their approval maybe from your colleagues or family or friends . We care about our likes and comments on social media . We try to adjust our time , our behavior and even sometimes our habits depending on the people to whom we are listening to .
In this process of entertaining people and working to met there expectations on you, you were really losing yourself. The more and more we thought about what people think of you, the less attention you give to what you want, what you like, what you think ,how you will like to enjoy life and more importantly what makes you YOU .
“ The most painful and scariest thing in the world is to look in the mirror and not recognize the person staring right at you ”
Are you Listening to yourself ??
